Some women make the mistake of sleeping with their man after only a few dates, some even as early as the first date. When this happens, the guy’s tendency is to lose interest in a girl once he already slept with her. However, sleeping with a man on the first date doesn’t always mean the relationship can no longer go somewhere. Here are some tips to keep him interested:
Make it impossible for him not to notice you
Even though you slept with him, this does mean that he would no longer be attracted to you, especially if you make an effort to look good. When you are always in your most gorgeous self, it would be impossible for him to just forget you easily.
Let him know that you are interested in him
You have to let this man know that you like him and that you are not just looking for a one night stand. Tell him that you are interested in him and that you would want to go out and, maybe, get to know him more.
Have your own life
You can keep a guy interested when he sees that you have your own life. Guys are interested with women who are independent and who do not need a guy to be happy.
Act like sleeping with him was not a big deal
This would absolutely drive him crazy! Do not let it seem as if sleeping with him is such a big deal to you, even if it really is. Act casually around him, as if nothing happened between the two of you. Be open, still, in asking him out on another date or hanging out with him.
Stop being clingy
There are some women who act so clingy after sleeping with the guy. They feel that the relationship is at a whole new level and that they already have the authority to dictate to a man all of his actions. Do not act as if this man is now your possession. Being clingy would definitely drive this man away faster than ever.
Connect with him in other aspects
You do not have to close your doors to the fact that you two can still connect on other things, aside from the physical aspect. Get to know this person more by asking him things about himself. For all you know, you have more things in common with this guy than all the other guys you have dated in the past.
Prove to him that you are not that kind of a woman
Some guys would lose interest because they do not see a woman who gives herself too easily as someone who is worth respecting. Let him know that you are not like any of these women. Prove that you are also someone to be respected, and that you also value yourself.
Source by Krista Hiles